Happy Mother's Day!

God could not be everywhere, so he created mothers. ~Jewish Proverb

I love this picture of my mother. This was taken when my eldest daughter was about six weeks old. The smile on my mother's face is not for the benefit of the camera. She was quite simply in love with this little girl that she was holding. My daughter had done nothing to earn her love other than being. Lauren was a delightful baby. She smiled easily and warmed to friends and family very quickly. However, none of that mattered to my mom. As much as I love this picture of my mom and daughter, I know that that expression on my mom's face is universal. Look at any mom holding a baby, and you will see them gazing at the baby with a smile. Yes, there are sleepless nights and dirty diapers (thank goodness for grandmoms!), but the fatigue and mess will fade away with time- the love endures.
My mom has showered Lauren with love since the day she was born, and they share a special relationship that each of them value. The dynamic has changed as Lauren's world has expanded; however, their Monday night dinner dates are sacred to both of them.
Every year my sisters and I try to figure out what gift we can give our mother to celebrate her and all that she has done, but when I look at this picture, I know that her 4 daughters and 9 grandchildren are her greatest gift. I am very grateful that I will spend this Sunday with my mother, 2 out of 3 sisters, and 6 of the 9 grandchildren.
To all the moms to be, moms, and grandmoms, have a wonderful Mother's Day, and enjoy the moment.

For you. Listen and smile!

Are you Trying to be Wonder Woman?

She can do it all... have a fulfilling career, raise bright well- adjusted children, be an attentive wife, stay fit and trim, keep the house clean and tidy, have a passion for volunteering... she is wonder woman- Many women feel pressure to be all that and a bag of chips. Check out this article to get some perspective on how to appreciate what you have and stay out of the rat race.

BREAK THROUGH THE PLATEAU

Be a Fit Mama is hosting Advocare's 24 Day "Break Through the Plateau" Challenge and is looking for participants and hosts. Average weight loss is 10lbs and 10 inches in 24 days. Here is the really cool part; you can do this with a group, you can do it by yourself, and you can do this long distance.

This is not a diet; This is a program that will teach you the foundation of nutrition and equip you for a healthy lifestyle. The 24 Day Challenge is a great way to...

• Break through a weight loss plateau


• Get fast results for an upcoming event


• Get lean for bathing suit season


• See better results from your current workout

Participants will receive ...

• FREE 24 Day food plan with healthy recipes


• FREE coaching and accountability


• Food diary to keep track of what you are really eating


• Gift for completion of 24 Day Challenge


• Free lifestyle questionnaire
• Sample Pack of nutritional products
  

Hosts will receive all of the above, PLUS

• Promotional materials


• Coaching on how to conduct a 24 Day Challenge


• Income opportunity- could be a little, could be a whole lot
  

See how the program has helped this mama get fit.

To request complete program details, please reply to nextlevelkc@gmail.com with best contact number and the best time to reach you.

Running on Empty

Cars have a very handy gauge to tell you how full your gas tank is. F=full E=empty. In my car a little warning light comes on when I am getting close to needing more gas. I often ignore the light the first time I see it... just one more trip to the store, just got to get my kid to soccer practice. If you run out of fuel, that is it; your car does not have a fuel reserve. Now imagine if you had no gas gauge and you had to estimate when you might need gas. That is what many of us have done with our bodies; our hunger gauge is no longer in sync because of coffee breakfasts and skipped meals. In turn we wonder why we are lethargic and can't stop eating in the evening.

Our bodies are complex and wonderful organisms. We don't give a second thought to our digestion, blood sugar levels, and energy until they are compromised in some way. What if you could help your body stay healthy through food? What if you shifted your thinking away from weight loss and calories and toward nutrition. Many of us treat our cars better than our bodies. We make sure our car gets the right type of fuel, we get the oil changed, we buy new tires, and we make sure our car is in proper alignment. Do you do that for yourself?

I am not going into the science of why you need to fuel your body properly- I can provide some links for that. What I do want to emphasize is that your body depends on you to provide nutrition, and lack of nutrition over time may lead to chronic health problems.

So here are some guidelines on how to nourish yourself throughout the day... A colleague of mine, who is a dietician, recommends these guidelines.... 5 small meals throughout the day with a minimum of 10 grams of protein and a maximum of 30 grams or carbohydrates.

This is what a typical would look like following those guidelines...

7:00 am breakfast- Protein shake
10:00 am snack- 1/4 cup of almonds and a piece of fruit
1:00 lunch- chicken breast and steamed veggies
4:00 snack- 1/2 cup of cottage cheese and 1/4 cup of strawberries
7:00 dinner- salmon filet and stir- fry veggies

Your body will thank you. You will chase away the swings in energy, and you just might find your clothes getting looser

Ever wonder why you crash in the Afternoon??

Somehow, as a society we have been trained that the key to weight loss is counting calories. What really contributes to living a healthy lifestyle long term is paying attention to WHAT you eat (nutritional value vs. calorie counting) and WHEN you eat. This is a great visualization of why we crash after a big meal and crave sugar. Stay tuned for ideas on how to eat throughout the day to keep the sugar cravings away and boost your energy.

PAY ATTENTION!

Several years ago Oprah came to town on a promotional tour, and I went with a group of girlfriends to see the queen of daytime TV. I don't remember much about Oprah, but what I do remember is her lasting message of "pay attention". She talked about the importance of listening to the whisper that you hear in your mind. If you ignore it, that whisper will soon become a yell, and if you continue to ignore that voice, eventually it will bang you on the head and knock you over. This little whisper is the voice of truth; the voice that you know instinctively is right. So, this week I have received this message via email and text.

"To get something you never had, you have to do something you never did."

Hmmm... I am thinking there is something to that message I need to pay attention to before it knocks me on the head. So, I have to ask myself what do I want to get and what am I willing to do to get it?

I don't know what the voice in your head is telling you to pay attention to, but the voice in my mind clearly says, "just getting by is no longer good enough". Please, don't misunderstand me; I have much to be grateful for- 4 beautiful bright happy kids, a wonderful husband who is also an exceptional father, as well as 3 sisters and a mom whom I am proud to be friends with. Believe me, there is much good in my life. However, this voice cannot be quieted and refuses to be ignored. The easy choice would be to ignore the voice 'cause from the outside looking in, my life just just isn't that bad. But, I must pay attention to that voice 'cause I know ,in my heart, from the inside looking out that, I have the power to make the ordinary extraordinary.

The Myth of Time Management

Oh, the shelves are crowded with books about time management. You cannot manage time. It ticks away whether you manage it or not. You can manage your money... put it under the mattress, save it, spend it, invest it. You can do anything you like with your money. Time is different. You cannot invest it in stocks and watch it grow. You cannot save it for another day. All you can do is decide what you are going to do at this moment, and that is my focus- how to decide what to do right now because right now is an expiring option.

I have been reading and listening to some great entrepreneurs, and in one form or another, they all discuss the fact that in order to accomplish your goal, you must exchange activities that do not bring you closer to your goal with activities that do. It sounds pretty simple; decide what is important to you and do that. So, I must change my activities.

I do not know who is on American Idol or Dancing with the Stars. I wish I had seen one episode of Glee as everyone seems to really like it. TV is not my time drain. This little slim box that connects me to the whole world is my time drain. I believe I must check email to see what offers Barnes and Noble, Nordstrom, and Land's End have sent me. But, oh- the worst is FACE BOOK. Who has posted cute pics of their kids? Who responded to that very clever comment I made? What events have strangers invited me to? What fan pages have I been asked to join?... and I don't even play games on FaceBook or send stuff. So, in the interest of having more time to focus on helping others become Fit Mamas and more time with my kids, I am going on a Face Book diet.

I am not going cold turkey- that would be like telling me to give up chocolate completely. What I am doing is allowing myself to check in once in the morning and once at night. So, if you see my name pop up during the day, you can gently remind me to get off line NOW.

What are you willing to exchange to get one step closer to reaching your goal?